The Sun/Pluto conjunction on January 21st shows that it’s the other person who holds all the cards. This is great if you’re on the same side; not so great if you aren’t. In any case, you need to start getting used to life in the passenger seat. This means doing as you’re told, tabling first responses, and making a concerted effort to get along. Granted, not being behind the steering wheel sounds nightmarish, but there are different ways to exhibit strength. One is good humor. It often makes people less domineering. Who knows? They might even let you get your way from time to time.